Experienced lover

 A woman‘s image of a experienced lover is completely different from that of a man.

First he must be a good companion.

A woman imagines an elegant gentleman with polite behaviour, mastering social etiquette. A man with nicely manicured hands, pleasant smell, personal and sexual charisma.

A man who is attentive, kind, and sensible. A man who brings her at least a small gift or flowers. We are often interested by a man with a sense of detail and a sense of humour.

He should not lack a general overview as a basis for conversation. It impresses us if a man is purposeful, yet very grateful and generous.

Only after the man is considered a good companion does the woman begin to think of him as a lover.

She imagines the man touching her, tenderly kissing her, kissing her gently as she smells his scent near herself. Tiny details stir the woman’s passion. Hand on neck, kiss on neck, stroking certain points on back. The man must have sexual charisma, his so-called “unique sexual circle” in which the woman wants to stay. It’s the man’s unique and inimitable sexual energy code. This state has nothing to do with a sexual act. The woman longs to touch the man, she longs to devote herself to him; she wants to be as close to him as possible. Often she gently caresses him on the neck.

The woman remembers special details. Personally, when I think of any of my lovers, the first thought that comes to my mind is his charisma, his smell, the emotions and the excitement that his touch has created. I remember his taste, hugs, his overall attitude to me and my body.

The least I can remember and the first thing I forget is the size and proportions of his penis. For an emotionally mature woman, the size of the penis is irrelevant. We are satisfied by the emotions that are created during touches, that overall approach to us.

Thus, sexual intercourse itself is only a fraction of what constitutes an EXPERIENCED LOVER for us and is not the primary measure of the quality of a man as a lover.